Durian Diaries

I’ll be honest. Asians can eat some weird stuff. I would know, since I find myself in that camp frequently. I like to pride myself in my gustatory liberty. I’m a food liberal, and I’m proud. I try to acquire tastes that I don’t have. (Recent conquest: olives. Still needs work: dill pickles.) I’m pretty much game for trying anything. So, I thought it was time to practice what I preach. Durians.

Now, for many people who have traveled to East and Southeast Asia, these are known as the “stinky spiky fruits.” They are big, weighing up to 7 pounds. They have been known to kill unfortunate souls standing under the wrong tree at the wrong time. But most notoriously, they are known for the smell. At the cost of a stiff penalty, this fruit is often forbidden from being brought into hotels, buses, airplanes, or other public areas. There are signs with a picture of a durian and a circle with an X through it. When you smell it, you will know it. They are pungent, and a source of instant repulsion by those who are not accustomed to it.

The smell, up to this point, has kept me from getting close enough to eat this fruit. Reactions towards durians are polarized. Some salivate at the mere mention, while others must suppress their gag reflex. I thought it time to test my resolve. This is a new city. It is a new place and a new time in my life. My bold friends joined this endeavor, and for that, I am proud.

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The Other Side of the Lens

We all have insecurities. Sometimes they were beat into us as kids on the school yard. Sometimes they were suggested to us again and again by the media, telling us that to be beautiful, we had to buy their product. Sometimes, we settled, or even strove to blend in when our uniqueness was what made us beautiful.

Photographers are no exception. We have our insecurities. Some of us will openly admit that we started taking pictures to avoid having pictures taken of us. And after a while, we forget what it’s like to be on the other side of a fat lens, pointed close to our face, seemingly a microscope magnifying all those insecurities we hide behind the camera. So, once in a while, it’s a healthy thing to have a camera pointed at us, to remember the immense amount of self awareness a camera brings. It’s humbling to feel nervous, to wonder if our smile seemed too fake or if the picture will turn out ok. Sometimes, it’s good to be in the client’s shoes, to trust the photographer, and to remember that beauty is more than a photoshopped body on a magazine.

Thanks to my friend Dan Chen for taking the time out to do a little shoot for me :).

Weddings. Albums. Blam!

The internet is great. Digital media is something that has changed the way we deal with art and photography. And yet, after all these advances, why is it that we still find ourselves gravitating to something that is organic, analog, and physical? Why is that after getting a clean crisp digital image, some of us photographers will spend hours upon hours making the image like film? We are people who are holistic. We love not only with words and thoughts, but with touch. There is something different in picking up your image to see it in a unique light. There’s nothing like the touch and smell of brand new leather, or the weight of a flushmount album.

One reason I like meeting with clients is being able to show off the sample albums. They are heavy, thick, and beautiful. They can feel the texture of the cover and the smoothness of the pages. The colors just jump a bit more than a screen. It’s as if the physicality of the album and prints affirm the love in the image.

We are holistic people. And our love must be embodied.

Bees and Flowers in Chicago

There’s been some research lately showing how first off, staying “connected” to all our computers, phones, and media is bad for our brains, and that second, being away from the city and in nature is helpful for our ability to learn and retain information. (This is the Psychology major in me talking). But there’s much more to our well-being than being in nature and turning off our phones and computers (though, I do miss the wilderness terribly and spend far too much time in front of these monitors). Out here in Chicago as with many other cities, green space is rare, and concrete jungles are the norm. You can’t avoid cell phone reception even if you tried. But here in Chicago, there are friends. And even when backyard barbecues are done on pavement in front of garages, there is still love, and the grilled pizza is bomb.

Jasmine Star… Love Her, Hate Her, Learn From Her.

So this post isn’t about the merits of Jasmine Star’s work. Those of you who follow photographers have undoubtedly heard of this celebrity photographer. She’s made a meteoric rise in popularity since she’s started. Some people love her, some people hate her. Some people would love to be her, some people would do things quite differently than her. All of that is ok. Personally, I shoot and edit in a very different style than her, but she is successful for a reason. Granted, I probably have some different ideas of what it means to be “successful” as well, but I think that she has some very valid and valuable experiences to speak from.

Today (and these next few days), she will be talking through pretty much every aspect of her business. In fact, on Friday, she’s taking the web audience live to one of her client’s weddings. What they’re doing at CreativeLive is neat. For many new photographers out there, this is a simply invaluable experience to hear from someone who has become quite popular as a wedding photographer. She touches on things like being real, brand management, what she shoots with, blogging, and on and on. These are things that you would generally have to pay hundreds of dollars to see or hear from a seminar or workshop. Even for seasoned wedding photographers, there’s always something you can learn from someone else, something that’ll give you a different perspective. In this day and age, change is what keeps you alive. Creativity requires pushing oneself. Stagnation is a business killer.

So, for those who are interested, you can find out about the multi-day live web broadcast at http://creativelive.com/live.